This paper argued that there is a very strong influence of the Epicurean utilitarian st ethics on the 21 century parenting and discipline; and that it has brought about a decline in work ethics and hard work. The paper analytically explored the possibility of authentic parenting. It emphasized that pain is not avoidable as it is considered a part of our collective human existence and experience that can eventually lead to long term pleasure. This paper adoptedthe qualitative and expository methods of investigation.
Keywords: authentic, century, discipline, epicurus, ethics, influence, parenting, quest, utilitarian